My wife got preggers when we were both in our late 30's. We got "the talk" about the high risk of the child being mentally retarded (now re-named Intellectual disability) many times. This was my wife's first and my 4th. They even encouraged to do a very invasive test to find out the probability of the baby being IDD, so I guess we could make a more "educated decision" I suppose... They even gave us a time limit to abort if we wanted. Eventually we just told them to fuck off before their speech every time. We would say "what difference would that make?" "We aint aborting this baby." My youngest daughter is a very healthy 14 years old today. I respect a woman's right to choose due to rape/incest, etc. But dont tell me you suddenly made a decision made on a time line for whatever reason.