OldDevilDawg
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I'm still stuck on Peru. It's a place with the tallest mountains and the most diverse landscapes and the most gentle people. I'm still struggling to make sense of it all. I fear, I never will
How does the hardest conditions shape the kindest of people?
I'm not sure.
My reflection is how does a America with the easiest conditions shape the most mal-discontents? It's not just my friends, my family and my enemies. It's me too.
Americans are strangely so discontent that we are malcontent - so dissatisfied that we blame others- partially the innocent Starbucks' cashier, that they are the root of our problems.
A $5 coffee.
That is the arrogance of many Americans.
How can we change that?
#1 empathy.
Don't worry about next steps. I'm still working one #1. Empathy. Really listening is part of empathy.
Pro tip. Instead of asking, "why don't you people do _____or that"
Try
"Can you tell me about ___this or that?"
Show interest. Show caring. And I think, we get better at empathy.
I am Not sure. So please let me know if empathy is important or over emphasized?
How does the hardest conditions shape the kindest of people?
I'm not sure.
My reflection is how does a America with the easiest conditions shape the most mal-discontents? It's not just my friends, my family and my enemies. It's me too.
Americans are strangely so discontent that we are malcontent - so dissatisfied that we blame others- partially the innocent Starbucks' cashier, that they are the root of our problems.
A $5 coffee.
That is the arrogance of many Americans.
How can we change that?
#1 empathy.
Don't worry about next steps. I'm still working one #1. Empathy. Really listening is part of empathy.
Pro tip. Instead of asking, "why don't you people do _____or that"
Try
"Can you tell me about ___this or that?"
Show interest. Show caring. And I think, we get better at empathy.
I am Not sure. So please let me know if empathy is important or over emphasized?

