OldDevilDawg
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I’m not discounting them at all. And yes, I’m some cases it was extremely radical. My Mom’s famiky has rocks thrown through their windows because they would let Black people walk in the front of the store and not the back. They treated “the help” like they were family and that was extremely radical at the time.
I’m merely pointing out that when people, and this isn’t just now, it’s gone through history, say they don’t like how things are going they don’t realize that change in this country happens revolutionary and not evolutionary, and there was a good amount of blood spilt on both sides for those said people to work and make better lives for generations after them.
Historically, my family has always been "the help". Sharecroppers at best, but usually just ridiculously low paid field help whether it was cotton, tobacco, or even today in my part of Georgia, Vidalia onions or blueberries. We never saw color in those folks we worked side by side with and still don't. Hell, many of them are still part of my "family" even though it's been 40 years since I worked side by side with them. One of the black ladies that I worked with all those years ago.....I work with her son now. I coached him in PeeWee football. Him and my daughter are VERY close. I know if she needed him for any reason, he'd drop everything and get to her before I could. At the same time, I do my best to help him at work. If he needs an ass chewing for getting slack, I'll jokingly tell him, "Don't make me call your Mama". But he knows I'm only partially joking and he knows I have his best interest in mind. I consider him one of my kids.
I said all that to say this.....
I'm a firm believer that stories like mine and yours are WAY more prevalent that what we're lead to believe. Do we have bad apples? Yes. Across the board. Bad apples do not have an ethnicity.