Bama Believer
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Guys I've got something laying heavy on my heart right now, and if you'll indulge me a moment for a serious thread I would appreciate it..
I just found out that a co worker who I shared 20 years with shot himself 2 nights ago.
Now he was in a position very similar to mine for another dept. and we had a lot of head butting run ins over the years but I always respected him and I think he respected me.. He was a very smart man, very personable, and most people liked him.
Nobody knows the "why", no note, nothing.. people are assuming some kind of deep depression that was well hidden.. He leaves behind a wife, 3 kids, and 7 grands.. whose lives will be forever tarnished and whose Christmas will forever be a sad time..
I'm angry,, thats the emotion that comes up first.. He was a smart enough guy to know how to reach out for help. There may be something else that comes out in the days to come that shed new light on this but for now,, all I can think of is how selfish this action was and the shattered lives that he left behind that will forever wonder what they could have done.
My dad told me something when I was a teenager and I've told my son no less than a hundred times the same thing,, "There is nothing so bad that you cant go 500 miles in any direction and start over".
I would like to tell all of you,, any of you.. If you are feeling depressed and feeling like there is no way out or your just plain too tired to keep trying.. Please send me a private message and lets talk it out.. sometimes just talking to somebody who is not in your daily face to face rotation can give you the courage to talk about whatever is going on.. I may not be more than a dumbass redneck but I do care about people and I'm a good listener,, especially if theres a drink handy.
I just found out that a co worker who I shared 20 years with shot himself 2 nights ago.
Now he was in a position very similar to mine for another dept. and we had a lot of head butting run ins over the years but I always respected him and I think he respected me.. He was a very smart man, very personable, and most people liked him.
Nobody knows the "why", no note, nothing.. people are assuming some kind of deep depression that was well hidden.. He leaves behind a wife, 3 kids, and 7 grands.. whose lives will be forever tarnished and whose Christmas will forever be a sad time..
I'm angry,, thats the emotion that comes up first.. He was a smart enough guy to know how to reach out for help. There may be something else that comes out in the days to come that shed new light on this but for now,, all I can think of is how selfish this action was and the shattered lives that he left behind that will forever wonder what they could have done.
My dad told me something when I was a teenager and I've told my son no less than a hundred times the same thing,, "There is nothing so bad that you cant go 500 miles in any direction and start over".
I would like to tell all of you,, any of you.. If you are feeling depressed and feeling like there is no way out or your just plain too tired to keep trying.. Please send me a private message and lets talk it out.. sometimes just talking to somebody who is not in your daily face to face rotation can give you the courage to talk about whatever is going on.. I may not be more than a dumbass redneck but I do care about people and I'm a good listener,, especially if theres a drink handy.